Remember sexy times from your past, check out arousing online images, or read erotica. Stand facing the wall. But remember: you must, must, Plus, it’s also more comparable to the sensations caused by a partner’s hands, so if you have any interest in partner sex, it’ll help you transition from one to the other more smoothly, and gives you information for your partner about how you like to be touched. Bondage and fetish expert, also recommends going in circular motions around the clitoris, rather than back-and-forth straight strokes.
Entertaining to read, they also let you discover your sensual and sexual side. Being on your back is the og position for a reason: you can have your legs spread to the high heavens, get right at the clit, and get off without a hitch (and minimal effort). Against the wall can be hot, but it’s pretty complicated.