He sings in the shower after morning sex, nearly every time. Being able to see that level of complete satisfaction on his face is so satisfying to me. It has brought a new level of happiness for me personally, and has helped my self-esteem knowing that after two kids, my husband still thinks i’m sexy. What i mean is that it promotes togetherness, snuggling and cuddling, and it’s a way to connect without words. New positions and sexual frontiers take a lot of trust in your partner to not screw it up, and that kind of trust is best earned after several years of personal and joint bodily exploration.